There is a mindset by some that it is the "intolerance" of others, to their lifestyle or beliefs, that is the culprit of their discouragement and feeling down. When in fact it is their own conscience all along, with which they are wrestling, and from which they are running. As long as there are others to blame they will escape the truth and find no peace within. "CONSCIENCE: The interior voice of a human being, within who's heart the inner law of God is inscribed. Moral conscience is a judgment of practical reason about the moral quality of a human action." (CCC Glossary) Examination of conscience daily is important. We must come to God raw and honest about who we are and that which we struggle. We may have to wrestle a bit as Jacob did. But in the end, if we humbly surrender to him as children, He will come in, revealing to us His love and truth. And there we find the rest, peace and acceptance for which we always longed.